When
you are diagnosed with depression or low-self esteem, Just make sure
you are not surrounded by ass holes. When I saw this quote on a
friend’s Facebook wall I laughed out loud with delight and
recognition. It hit me on a subconscious level. Why did I like it so
much? It was the kind of reason behind many past problems. But I did
like it! A lot! It was strong enough to write a blog about it which
some others will also like it And I started asking myself, what
happened actually?
I
started thinking of my own life experience. It’s
better to be alone, than to have a bad companion. Surround yourself
with great people and you will never be lonely. How
many times did the behavior of others effect how I felt about myself?
How many times did I have to leave relationships because of the
damage they were doing to my self-esteem?
I
was exposed repeatedly to wrong, which caused a wear on my
self-esteem. I am a person who is reared to be nice. People
thinks that all friends are friends. But, in fact those friends
surround you now is just your temporary friend especially they get
something from you. But you can really know who your real friends in
time of troubles and sorrows. You can even count in your right hand
fingers only.
For
me realization came when I got a job that forced me to stay away from
these people. Some incidences also proved that they ditched me
because they can’t gain control over me any more & I shouldn't
let me come back again.The best cures in life are to either surround
yourself with people that bring you up, or to lose all the people
that bring you down. Gain the good, lose the bad, and what not.
Little
by little I realized I was actually happy, despite the low-pay job.
Then I just stopped even trying to deal with them and contact them at
all. They weren't too attentive anyway, so my guess is they probably
stopped. I got a call once and then I haven't made contact again
since till date, it been ages now.
